Listening to a re-airing of a gathering to discuss this topic, I heard Krista Tippett of Speaking of Faith/Belief begin the session by focusing on the words we speak as the basis of civil discourse. However, linguists such as George Lakhoff( see especially Philosophy in the Flesh
Where do we allow for movement in our lives? Is it simply for utilitarian task of walking to a vehicle and typing on a computer keyboard? Or do we allow for movement that creates "the way the world should be" ? That is more or less Jonathan Z. Smith's definition of ritual (To Take Place: Toward Theory in Ritual (Chicago Studies in the History of Judaism)
Ritual isn't always good. I was reminded of that as my book was edited. Ritual may be used to oppress people, as it is a very powerful activity as symbolic movement. The point is, when we pay attention to our movements, we start to understand where our words come from, and how important our movements are to social well being.
In my book I quote Cass Daglish's characters from Nin
I remember my Jewish meditation teacher beginning each session with instruction to "greet your neighbor," with a reminder note that most of the work in Judaism was exactly this. Following instruction, we would all turn to one another, face to face, eye to eye. Those were the best meditation sessions. Such small but symbolic actions are simple rituals that convey a longing for unity, connection, and love of neighbor. Possibilities abound for such simple but meaningful gestures. And yes, even democratic and republican senators and representatives sitting together for a presidential speech may make a difference. But it all begins with a recognition that movement does matter very much.
I am now going to stand up, stretch, and do some yoga before going to dance class. I am a kinesthetic person. Yet I am conviced that most people need to move more, and be much more aware of the movements they make. This is the place that civil discourse must begin - with ourselves, and discovering our connection to others in movement.